The Power of Reconnection

"Karla, Thank You for Having Me" Two days after Easter this is the text that I received from my first cousin on my father's side, Harold Hayden. I read the text and was immediately consumed with undefinable feelings. It was me who needed to say, "Harold - thank you for reconnecting with me after 23 years." I also needed to say many other things that were floating around in my head and in my heart, but I could not get them in an order that would make sense at the time - a jumbled up mess akin to pouring out the magnetic alphabet letters on the floor and desperately needing to place them in proper order on the refrigerator. Isn't that life, though - messy at best, sometimes? It seems to be my lot to constantly be attempting to put some order to the mess - at least to get things into their proper order or categories! I decided that writing about Harold in this blog post would help me (and him) make at least a little sense of the power of reconnection. ...